Its very hard to let people go from our life.. we give our 100% for friendship or any relation.. but every time we don't get 100% in return.. whose fault is it? our fault that we make that person a special person in our life.. or the other one who doesn't make us special person in their life? Be very careful while making friends..that's what I learnt.. we make friends blindly just trusting them.. but may be those people are just with you for a cause..not all of them but yes we at least meet one..
Don't be dependent on any relation.. nothing is life long.. no one is with us for whole life.. and these relations happens in your life just to teach you a lesson..may it be good or bad... we intentionally don't hurt anyone.. but our behavior does..there are situations when we manage so many things just because our friends needs us.. but are they with us when we need them??? Think 100 times before giving time to anyone.. because yes we expect that in return.. normal human tendency.. and if we don't get it back we hurt ourselves..making ourselves sad.. no point in digging our own grave.
Space is the thing required.. in any relation we need space.. no one can force us to be what we are not.. but actually the thing is the more you pressurize any person, more he/she moves away from you...there is a dialogue in DCH.." ret ko jitna tum hatho main thamne ki koshish karogi utni hi vo tumhare hato re fisalti jayegi.. its so true..
We actually should go with the flow in life.. instead of expecting any person to be with for lifetime..enjoy the phase we are with that person.. may it be few seconds or years..we just need to collect moments in our life.. instead if being tensed and make people around us sad.. make them happy.. by staying happy and making them feel cozy when they are with you..
If someone left us its not there fault its our that we could not hold that person in our life.. may it be time constraint,communication gap,priorities... We should be clear in our mind who should be given priority..Be so strong that it wont hamper us if anybody is no more in our life.. reason may be anything...
Stay happy!!
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